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THE ART OF CREATIVE THINKING: Six tips to do it effectively

all those who attain great success may vary in many things but they have one thing in common; they think creatively.

German-born American physicist and Nobel laureate, Albert Einstein once said, “Imagination is more important than knowledge.”  Imagination is  nothing less than Creative thinking. Creative thinking is simply the act of stretching your imagination, to see possibilities in your job, calling, and environment.

Successful people in all walks of life practice creativity; successful pastors constantly develop new ways to keep their Christians, fruitful business men always devise fresh means to attract customers, prosperous married people continually create new methods to entertain their spouses. Creative thinking is a serious tool to destiny fulfillment.

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MAKE GOOD USE OF YOUR TIME: 7 proven techniques to make an efficient use of your time

Here comes the fourteen absolute principle of destiny fulfillment

MAKE GOOD USE OF YOUR TIME: 7 proven techniques to make an efficient use of your time

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven. (Eccl 3:1.NIV)

I was always seeing Bob with a piece of paper. The paper was either in his shirt’ front pocket, or was laying somewhere at close reach. One day when I had insisted on seeing what was in the usual famous piece of paper, Bob handed it to me. It is then I discovered that it was a “to do” list. On it, Bob had listed all the activities he was to preform that day and allocated a set time for each. Then staring at me he said, “Time is money, and even more than money; time is life! If you want to be in control of your life, be in control of your time.” Continue reading “MAKE GOOD USE OF YOUR TIME: 7 proven techniques to make an efficient use of your time”

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4 compelling reasons why you should learn from others

 

A Lion, unable from old age and infirmities to provide himself with food by force, resolved to do so by artifice. He returned to his den, and lying down there, pretended to be sick, taking care that his sickness should be publicly known. The beasts expressed their sorrow, and came one by one to his den, where the Lion devoured them. After many of the beasts had thus disappeared, the Fox discovered the trick and presenting himself to the Lion, stood on the outside of the cave, at a respectful distance, and asked him how he was. “I am very middling,” replied the Lion, “but why do you stand without? Pray enter within to talk with me.” “No, thank you,” said the Fox. “I notice that there are many prints of feet entering your cave, but I see no trace of any returning. What a wise fox! Though his fellow animals behave so carelessly and ignorantly, at lest he learned from their mistake.

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8 crucial steps for taking good decisions

 

On the 28th of June 1914, a young man made a terrible decision that was to alter the course of the entire world. It is reported that that morning, Archduke Franz Ferdinand the heir to the throne of the Austro-Hungarian Empire, and his wife Sophie were visiting the Serbian Capital of Sarajevo. At 10:10 their motorcade was bombed as it approached the Čumuria bridge. But as God would have it, twenty people were wounded, but Franz Ferdinand was unhurt. Shortly after, Archduke Franz Ferdinand and his wife Sophie were on their way to the hospital to visit the wounded of the bombing incident. Then, a Bosnian student and nationalist called Gavrilo Prinzip used his discretion to force a terrible fate on the human race. He decided an assassinated the Heir and his wife. Unfortunately, as the adage that goes that “if the first button of one’s coat is wrongly buttoned; all the rest will be crooked,” the series of diplomatic maneuver that followed the assassination were characterized by wrong choices. This accumulation of wrong decisions, culminated in a fatal world war that lasted five years, and claimed more than twenty million souls. Assuredly, a single choice, decision or act determines sometimes a human destiny for all times and for eternity. Continue reading “8 crucial steps for taking good decisions”

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Practice self-discipline and fulfill your destiny: 10 tips to enhance self discipline

Here comes the eleventh absolute principle of destiny fulfillment,
SELF-DISCIPLINE
Therefore I do not run like a man running aimlessly; I do not fight like a man beating the air. No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize. (1 Cor 9:26-27.NIV)

Alain didn’t know that his friend James had purposed in his heart to become an international Basketball referee. Alain had noticed the sudden changes in his friend’s character. The friend had become more composed. He was no more drinking alcoholic drinks. He had also stopped smoking, and had started going to bed at a specific time. What even amazed James the more was that his friend who use to dread reading, was now always seen with a book in hand. When these changes went on for continuous three weeks in James’ life, they became a habit. Eventually, James became the international referee he had dreamed of. In truth, a master proclaims himself by his restrictions. Continue reading “Practice self-discipline and fulfill your destiny: 10 tips to enhance self discipline”

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5 SECRETS TO REMAIN FOCUSED ON YOUR VISION THAT YOU DIDN’T KNOW

5 SECRETS TO REMAIN FOCUSED ON YOUR VISION THAT YOU DIDN’T KNOW
Jesus replied, “No one who puts his hand to
the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God.” (Luke 9:62.NIV)
Concentration is the 10th absolute principle of destiny fulfillment

Here comes the 10th absolute principle of destiny fulfillment. A recapitulation of the nine precedent absolute principles:
1-Discover your Divine destiny
2-Have a burning desire to see your destiny fulfill
3-Develop a persuasive vision
4-Set mistakes free goals
5-Make sure you train
6-Be positive in your thinking
7-Be courageous
8-Take some risks
9-Stay motivated

Now to concentration,

Elisha is a good example of concentration in the miss of distraction, when he wanted the double portion of his master’s unction; that anointing that was to carry him into his destiny. (2 kings 2:9-15. To continue on the part of success you need concentration. “Be like a postage stamp. Stick to one thing until you get there,” Avers, the American journalist, Josh Billings.

Concentration is the ability, through fixed habit and practice, to keep your mind on one subject until you have thoroughly familiarized yourself with that subject and mastered it. It is the ability to control your attention and focus it on a given problem until you have solved it. Concentration is the Continue reading “5 SECRETS TO REMAIN FOCUSED ON YOUR VISION THAT YOU DIDN’T KNOW”

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50 Additional proverbs to improve on your written and spoken English

50 Additional proverbs to improve on your written and spoken English
A change is as good as a rest! Therefore, contrary to our normal habit of receiving motivational articles, I still bring to you today an educational article. I am a Cameroonian and my first language is French but I keep on improving on my English daily. Recently I came across more 50 English proverbs and their meaning which help me to enrich my written and spoken English. Permit me share them with you.

Every man is the architect of his own fortune! You can construct varied and better sentences by these 50 English proverbs that I have discovered for you. Continue reading “50 Additional proverbs to improve on your written and spoken English”

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13 LITTLE-KNOWN FACTORS ABOUT COURAGE THAT COULD POSITIVELY AFFECT YOUR DESTINY

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13 LITTLE-KNOWN FACTORS ABOUT COURAGE THAT COULD POSITIVELY AFFECT YOUR DESTINY

Here is the 7th absolute principle of destiny fulfillment. Is you haven’t read the first 6 absolute principles, click on the links bellow to have access to them:
1- The first absolute step of destiny fulfillment is: discovering your destiny

2- Have a burning desire to fulfill your destiny

3- Have a persuasive vision for your destiny
4- Set goals avoiding 8 dangerous mistakes
5- Train, with 17 truths acknowledged
6- Have positive thinking: 20 truths about positive thinking that you did not know

Courage is reckoned the greatest of all virtues because unless a man has that virtue he has no security for preserving any other. Courage is an essential principle for destiny fulfillment.
What is courage? Courage is the quality of being brave: the ability to face danger, difficulty, uncertainty, or pain without being overcome by fear or being deflected from a chosen course of action. Courage is described as the absence of fear. It is not only the absence of fear, it is the act of facing the things that scare you but which you know are necessary if you are going to get what you want in life. Courage is the ability to break away from your comfort zone. Each of us has a comfort zone, a zone of behavior that is familiar to us and where we feel comfortable and safe. They are routine parts of your everyday life, the things you can do with no sweat. But to succeed, with your destiny, you will be called upon from time to time to break away from your comfort zone. Sometimes you will need a bold David versus Goliath kind of courage. At other times, we will need a quieter courage, the kind described by Mary Radmacher-Hershey, “Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying: “I will try again tomorrow.”

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20 TRUTHS ABOUT POSITIVE THINKING THAT YOU DID NOT KNOW

20 TRUTHS ABOUT POSITIVE THINKING THAT YOU DID NOT KNOW

Here is the 6th absolute step of destiny fulfillment.
If you have not read the 5 previous ones then you can link to them here:
1- First absolute step of destiny fulfillment: discover your destiny
2- 2nd absolute step: have a burning desire to fulfill your destiny
3- 3rd absolute step: have a persuasive vision for your destiny
4- 4th absolute step: set goals avoiding 8 dangerous mistakes
5- 5th absolute step: train with 17 truths acknowledged
A story is told of Mr. Gaston, a Christian bank manager whose bank went bankrupt. A while after the tragedy had befallen him, he also fell sick and was carried to the hospital. There he was admitted. One day Simon came to visit a patient in the hospital and suddenly recognized Gaston.
Simon always admired Gaston in his days of glory. After they had chatted a while, they went to a restaurant on Simon’s account. To Simon’s surprise, the bank manager solicited that they should go to a VIP restaurant. Simon who had thought that bankruptcy and sickness would force the former bank manager to lower his standard in life was very in dismay. Eventually after a while Gaston recovered from the sickness. And as God will have it, his bank was also restored. Gaston and Simon who had become friends from the day they visited the restaurant met again. Then, Simon joking confessed to Gaston, “I was surprised when you opted to have launch in a VIP restaurant whereas your bank was bankrupt and more to that, you were sick.” Gaston was now fully healed and the bank fully restored.
He then revealed what was the real motive behind his behavior that day. He said, “even though my bank had gone bankrupt and sickness had come, in my mind I was still a healthy bank manager.” Truly, our thoughts can help us more than doctors if they are positive, and harm us more than weapons if they are negative.

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17 TRUTHS ABOUT TRAINING THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

17 TRUTHS ABOUT TRAINING THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.”(2 Tim 2:15 KJV)
Even though Roger Milla has always been a great footballer in his amazing career, he is most remembered for his exploits during the 1990 world cup in Italy. What most of us ignore is that behind those performances lay special training and preparation. Despite his age, Milla still felt that the Italian world cup could be an opportunity to impress the world and end his tremendous career in a grand style. The news paper reported, and I heard Roger Milla also confirmed that prior to that tournament he decided to exile himself to the tiny Indian Ocean island of Reunion to be a player-coach for a semiprofessional team called St. Pierre de la Reunion. Milla received very little money or attention in Reunion. But for him, it was a chance to prepare for a tournament that was to change the story of his life. Milla for a while avoided the extraneous pressures and distractions that are so prevalent in the European leagues and particularly in international competition. There, even though being a player and coach, Milla still recruited a personal physical coach with whom he was training. The result of that special training was made manifest at the view of the entire world. Milla Amazed all soccer fans with his astonishing performances during the Italian world cup. What was true to roger Milla is what is true with all those you see performing well. They take time to prepare and to train. Former American President Abraham Lincoln wisely attested that if you give him six hours to cut down a tree, he will spend the first four sharpening his axe. The way you prepare determines the way you perform.

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HOW FAR ARE YOUR GOALS FREE FROM THE 8 FOLLOWING DANGEROUS MISTAKES?

HOW FAR ARE YOUR GOALS FREE FROM THE 8 FOLLOWING MISTAKES?Goal-setting is very important and we cannot succeed in our lives without it. Here comes the fourth absolute step of destiny fulfillment: SET GOALS.
What are Goals? They are small objectives or steps that will culminate in your purpose. Goals are your game plan for fulfilling your vision. They are the tools you can use to go from where you are right now to where you want to be. For instance to write a book you write at least a page of it every day, a page will not make the whole book but when all the pages are written, they will lead to the purpose which is the book. So goals are the pages that make up the book which is your vision. Goals are so important because they can stimulate you if properly set. Set goals motivate like magic.
face_smileGoals are important at least for six reasons.

  • Goal setting takes your dreams and turns them into reality
    Having a purpose is exceptionally exciting but the simple fact alone is not sufficient. By setting goals, you plan how to materialize your wish.
  • They keep you focused
    When you learn how to each day set specific goals, you become more focused on the things that really make a difference.
  • They give you enthusiasm
    When we have a worthy aim to live for you are automatically motivated.
  • They give you clarity in decision-making.
    Your mind is like a workstation it needs directions to operate competently. And those directives cannot be imprecise and vague; they must be clear and precise. Set goals send precised information to your brain.
  • They help you stay organized
    They serve as instructions to your brain. When you set goals and constantly think of them, your subconscious mind will act as an automatic pilot to guide you towards their achievement. They help you judge your productivity and effectiveness
    Without goals you have no targets, and without targets you have nothing to measure how you’re doing. Your goals help you evaluate your productivity and effectiveness.

Goal-setting is so vital, J.C Penny a famous rich man once said: “give me a stock clerk with a goal and I will give you a man, Give me a man without a goal and I will give you a stock clerk.” Goals are so important for any thing we want to achieve in life but many people hastily set them and in the process many mistakes. Here are:

liferea8 MISTAKES TO AVOID WHILE SETTING YOUR GOALS

  1. Don’t fail to list the goal category. Many people fail to list the category of the goal they are setting. There are several categories of goals; spiritual life physical life, intellectual life moral life, familial life, career, relationship etc… It will be helpful for you to list from which category you are setting a goal.
  2. Don’t fail to put your goal in writing. While writing, make it specific. For instance, to say you want to be happily married is more of a wish than a goal. For a goal to be effective you must describe in detail what it will look like. Say I want to become a better husband by being more affectionate to my wife. Write your goals down, to have a way to measure your progress. Eric Garner teaches that, “Written goals have a way of transforming wishes into wants, can’ts into cans, dreams into plans and plans into reality”.
  3. Don’t fail to give it a deadline. Deadlines often scare people away from goal-setting. But setting a deadline does provide a target. Deadlines don’t only force us to work had, they also serve as a motivator in the sense that each time you meet a deadline it reinforces your sense of fulfilling your goals, creates the momentum and sense of success in your life and gives you satisfaction. Set goals for every day, every week, every month, and every year.
  4. Don’t fail to identify potential success blockers. You will meet obstacles therefore you should better expect them! Anything worthwhile in Life will have a price to pay and hurdles to conquer. Successful goal setters identify those potential problems first before they encounter them. This puts them in a much stronger position to overcome.
  5. Don’t fail to write out a list of skills you will need to develop to achieve the goal. If you set a goal to be more affectionate then you might have to develop some listening and talking skills. It probably would help. If you want to write a book then you may need to develop grammatical skills. This step forces you to consider ahead of time the tools you will need to see your dreams come true. Make a list.
  6. Don’t fail to identify the resources you will need. Chances are, you will require the assistance of certain people to see your dreams fulfilled. Who are they? How should you approach them? What should you ask them? Is there an association or fellowship to join? Some goals require the assistance of professional helpers.
  7. Don’t fail to list what benefits this goal will bring. Every goal has a price and requires a certain degree of sacrifice and hard work but also contains some great gains. When you list the benefits of the goal, you stay motivated to stick with it.
  8. Don’t fail to build in accountability factors. Have you tried to achieve a certain goal only to fail time and time again? You feel the goal is worthwhile and you would like to see it through, but you just can’t break through. To achieve such goals, make yourself accountable to someone you respect who can call you to order from time to time

64_38SIX THINGS YOU SHOULD REMEMBER WHILE SETTING YOUR GOALS
First build a proper goal. That goal will make it easy, almost automatic to build a proper

  1. Build your goals around your strengths
    Although you can base your goals on anything you want, your chances of success are greater if, first, you base them on your strengths and second, on the current opportunities in your field. Your goals should be yours; that is in the limits of your capacity. You should not allow someone’s wishes to influence your goals; their accomplishments should be fully depending only on you. Why? Because if your goals are not yours you will not have the motivation or the desire to see them accomplished. You will easily be overtaken by discouragement and frustration if they arrive. To find out your strengths do some self-research such as a personal SWOT.
  2. Set your goals as big as you can
    One of the factors that restrict the realization of our full potential is the belief that we shouldn’t go for big goals. Those who realize big goals are prove that we can always achieve far more than we think. David Schwartz shows in his book The Magic of Thinking Big that “Big goals attract big resources like a magnet.” Aim to make them challenging; out of reach, but not out of sight. Big thoughts send out an energy that attracts complementary thoughts from people who can help us achieve what we want.
  3. Express your goals in terms of what you want
    It is important to express your goals in the right way. Never express your goal in terms of what you don’t want; always in terms of what you do want. For example don’t say ‘I don’t want to be a bad husband anymore” instead say “I want to be a better husband from now on”. Express your goals in performance terms not reward terms. Express your goals in terms of how others benefit. Express your goals according to the principles which matter.
  4. Make them all round
    While focusing on goals is a sure way to move towards them, focusing on some goals at the cost of neglecting others is a way to achieve hollow victories. It is like the man who worked so hard to provide for his family that he neglected them in the process and ended up losing them from his life. When we manage to harmonize or align goals in one area with those in another, we find that motivating forces in one area actually help those in other areas at the same time. Set work goals. These are goals that you want to reach in work. Set social goals. These refer to the group you want to join to fulfill your destiny? Physical goals—what state will your body be in next year at this time? Mental goals: How will you develop your mind? Spiritual goals: what aspect of your spiritual life will you develop? Setting goals with equal proportional balance is the key so that you do not steal from one part of your life to fulfill another.
  5. Express them in behavioral terms
    When we set goals for ourselves, they should be expressed in behavioral terms, rather than in terms of status, rewards or position. That’s because behavior is something within our power, while status, rewards and position are not. Formulating goals in behavioral terms also means we present a strong positive image of ourselves to our brains. The brain, not knowing the difference between a real or imagined experience, then seeks to act in accordance with the presented image.
  6. Don’t be afraid to modify it if need be
    Life and circumstances are constantly changing also change with them. If you find that the plan you have is not working, change it or modify it. Don’t be afraid to make changes in your plans as you progress towards achieving your vision. You will change your goals often, continuously, and that is all right, too! You are simply writing down what your desires are today. Have fun in setting and achieving your goals. Also have fun in changing them. Surely, as you upgrade your information and knowledge, you will change your perception of what pleases you.

                                                                     GOD BLESS YOU

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BE A PERSON OF VISION

                          THIRD ABSOLUTE STEP OF DESTINY FULFILLMENT

Dear reader, here comes the third absolute step of destiny fulfillment. If you are a usual reader on my blog “destiny fulfillment”, then you are surely aware that we started a series of teaching entitled, 24 absolute steps of destiny fulfillment. In the two last articles, we dealt with the two first steps of destiny fulfillment which are:
1-to discover our life’s purpose click here to read it, and
2- Have a burning desire to see your destiny fulfill. Click here to read it

In this present article, we are dealing with the third step of destiny fulfillment which,
HAVING A PERSUASIVE VISION FOR YOUR DESTINY

What is vision? Vision also called visualization; is a projection into the future, a mental representation of how you want to use your potential to the fullest. Vision is the final result you want to obtain from your efforts, it is the dream you have for your future. To give you a simple picture, Vision is a snapshot of your future and your destiny.

The moment you have discovered your life’s purpose and are desiring to see it fulfill, develop a vision, have a projection in the future and mentally design the way you want to fulfill that destiny. Continue reading “BE A PERSON OF VISION”

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STEP TWO OF 24 ABSOLUTE STEPS OF DESTINY FULFILLMENT

STEP TWO OF 24 ABSOLUTE STEPS OF DESTINY FULFILLMENT
Hello dear. If you read the post 24 ABSOLUTE STEPS OF DESTINY FULFILLMENT ONE, then you are surely aware of the fact that this teaching is a series. In the previous post we dealt with the first absolute step of destiny fulfillment which was that we should discover our destinies. In this second post we are dealing with the second absolute step which is:
HAVING A BURNING DESIRE TO FULFILL YOU DESTINY

The moment you have discovered your destiny, the next absolute step needed to see that destiny fulfilled is a burning desire; a strong yearning to be all what God created you to be.

We have this story in the Bible (Josh 14:12-13.NIV), about a young man of forty called Caleb son of Jephunneh. God revealed Caleb’s destiny and told him what his future was to look like, he showed him the exact place where he was to live. But after that promise, Caleb still stayed forty-five years out of his destiny until the day he desired and decided to claim his portion from Joshua. Then Joshua despite contesting had no other choice but to give Caleb what rightly belonged to him. Knowing what God created you to be is not sufficient it just the starting point. What really puts you on the way of destiny fulfillment is your burning desire.

gnome_face_smileA burning desire to be what God wants you to be, and to do what He wants you to do is a the second absolute principle of destiny fulfillment. John D. Rockefeller, one of the richest men the world has ever had once asserted, “Your state of mind must be one of a burning desire coupled with plans and a determination to make more money.” Rockefeller was right because, men rarely reach for what they need. They always reach for what they truly desire. Desire is required to make money but it is much more required to fulfill destiny.

Nothing is ever done under the sun without a strong desire to do it including destiny fulfillment. You will never accomplish your purpose of coming into this world except you earnestly want it. Man was designed for accomplishment, engineered for success, and endowed with a sense of destiny. But, not every- body is conscious that God purposely made him; some people think that they are a biological mistake or a coincidence of nature. Many people also who know that God created them for a purpose but do not desire enough to see that purpose fulfilled. Destiny can be fulfilled only when you earnestly and intensely desire to fulfill it. You have to want to do something badly enough before you have the slightest chance of doing it! If you don’t want it badly enough, I absolutely guarantee that you will not be willing to do the planning and preparing it takes to get it. Desire spells the difference between mere day dreams and a discovered destiny.

gnome_face_smileThere are many reasons people find to justify not fulfilling destiny, but in my opinion, the absence of desire is the primary root cause. What is desire? Let me describe it, desire is a serious persistent passion and will to do something. It is a keen, pulsating craving, which transcends everything else. Desire it not a hope; it is more than hope. It is not a wish; it is more than a wish; it is a fire within us that pushes us to follow a course or to take an action. Desire is more than motivation; it is the mother of motivation. Desire is the mother of motivation because that is where your motivation is born. It is an impression that is most vivid in our minds at the things we want to achieve. Desire transcends distrust and strictly rational thought. Desire is the “want to” at all cost. Desire is not a passing thought but a lifetime passion. If on your death, you realize that you have not fulfilled your destiny, don’t blame somebody else blame your lack of desire. As we are going to see in the course of this series, they are many obstacles we have to transcend to accomplish our life’s purpose but without a stubborn desire at the initial state, all those eventual obstacles will look like unshakable mountains and will finally deprive us of our divine callings.

gnome_face_smileApostle Paul, pushed by the desire to fulfill his destiny, while in prison in Caesarea told King Agrippa, “I was not disobedient unto the heavenly vision,” (Acts 26:19). Desire is a force that refuses to see obstacles it is concern only to see destiny fulfilled. If you want to achieve your discovered God given purpose, then climb this second rung of the ladder; seriously desire to see that destiny fulfilled. Vince Lombardi, wisely stated, “winning isn’t everything but wanting to win is.” Yes, discovering your destiny isn’t everything but your desire to fulfill it is. Eventually, it takes also other steps to fulfill your destiny but it mostly takes desire. By a serious desire, we start to pursue our destiny. By it we challenge our limitations. By it we persevere in front of roadblocks and temporal failures and fulfill our destinies.
                                               GOD BLESS YOU

In the next post we shall be discussing the third absolute step which is: Developing a corresponding vision for our discovered destiny.

RECOMMENDED READING

Think and Grow Rich!: The Original Version, Restored and Revised
Napoleon Hill

Born To Win: The Ultimate Seminar
Zig Ziglar

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DR ALAN ZIMMERMAN PROPOSED TO ME 3 ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS TO HELP DISCOVER OUR DESTINY

 3 ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS TO HELP DISCOVER OUR DESTINY PROPOSED TO ME BY DR ALAN R.ZIMMERMAN
All is not live all is to fulfill the reason of our coming into this world which is our destiny. Because of my conviction of that assertion, I recently introduced a series of teaching untitled THE 24 ABSOLUTE STEPS OF DESTINY FULFILLMENT. In the first lesson we discussed the first step of destiny fulfillment which was: Discover your life’ purpose click here to read that post. In that discussion we said  that to discover your life’ purpose you  need to take the following steps: Continue reading “DR ALAN ZIMMERMAN PROPOSED TO ME 3 ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS TO HELP DISCOVER OUR DESTINY”

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24 ABSOLUTE STEPS OF DESTINY FULFILLMENT

24 ABSOLUTE STEPS OF DESTINY FULFILLMENT
The word destiny has many connotations, in this context it means the reason of our creation and sending into this world.
God created and sent anyone of us in this world for a specific purpose and craves to see us bravely accomplish the reason of our presence in this terrible planet.
It would be very painful to God and devastating to us if at the end of our sojourn on this earth we are not happily received in eternal glory. God’s dream is to help us fulfill the great destiny he set for us before the foundation of the world. What shall we profit if we toil this tearful world and do not receive a “well done, good and faithful servant” at the other side? Continue reading “24 ABSOLUTE STEPS OF DESTINY FULFILLMENT”

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SIX THINGS YOU SHOULD REMEMBER WHILE SETTING YOUR DESTINY’S GOALS

SIX THINGS YOU SHOULD REMEMBER WHILE SETTING YOUR DESTINY’S GOALS

Helen Keller was a blind women, but she challenged her handicap and became a successful poet and artist. One day, Helen was asked if there is anything worse than being blind. She replied, “Yes. The most pathetic person in the world is someone who has sight, but no goal.’ There are lots of parts and sub-parts to put together when you begin to plan your success, but a few things are foundational. Goal setting is one of those foundational things. Continue reading “SIX THINGS YOU SHOULD REMEMBER WHILE SETTING YOUR DESTINY’S GOALS”

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HOW TO REMAIN A PURPOSEFUL PERSON IN A DISTRACTION FILLED WORLD: 4 TIPS

HOW TO REMAIN A PURPOSEFUL PERSON IN A DISTRACTION FILLED  WORLD:
4 TIPS

Purpose is very important in life. Until you have a purpose for your life, your life will hardly be relevant. No wind blows in favor of a ship without a destination. Your vision will be your destination. Australian governor Thomas Buxton once admitted that the longer he lives, the stronger becomes his conviction that the truest difference between success and failure, between the big and the small man, that separates boys from men, is nothing but a powerful aim in life, a purpose once fixed and then death or victory. According to him, “No perfect speech or manners, no culture or education, no pull or influence, can make a two-legged creature a man without it. I fully agree with the governor. Continue reading “HOW TO REMAIN A PURPOSEFUL PERSON IN A DISTRACTION FILLED WORLD: 4 TIPS”

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9 TECHNIQUES TO DEVELOP A PERSUADING PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE

9 TECHNIQUES TO DEVELOP A PERSUADING PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE
Purpose is paramount in life and we cannot make real impact with our existence without a clear define one. Living a purposeless life is a real tragedy. Benjamin E. Mayes once made this comment: “The tragedy of life doesn’t lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goal to reach.” Continue reading “9 TECHNIQUES TO DEVELOP A PERSUADING PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE”

4 ENEMIES OF MOTIVATION

4 ENEMIES OF MOTIVATION, AND HOW TO TACKLE THEM

Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. (1Thess 5:16-18.NIV)
Motivation is said to be the magic ingredient in the formula of success. Without it, it is very difficult and some times even impossible to attain success, but with it nothing seems impossible.
I have made a serious observation that people easily lose motivation, even for the most important projects in life.
But I have some good news; you can conquer demotivation. Here is how to go about it.
Dr Mike Murdock teaches that the best way to get motivated is to first know why we lost it, and then learn how to correct it. I fully agree to Dr Mike’s advices because, Identifying an enemy is the first weapon to fight it.

Here are the first 4 enemies of motivation

  1. Fatigue
    It comes when we try to do too much too fast and at the detriment of health and spiritual life. We should not try to do too much at a time; it may break us down and kill our motivation. To avoid fatigue, it is advised that you have some achievable goals for every day. Success is obtained one step after the other. Try as much as possible never to end your day being completely exhausted. Certain essentials are necessary for you to experience a successful day: a) rest, b) exercise, c) scripture study, and d) prayer. When you ignore these daily priorities, there will be heaviness within your spirit. God has arranged for you to feel uncomfortable when he is not happy with you.
  2. Lack of confidence
    It is difficult to continue attempting something if you don’t believe that you can do it. You would only be setting yourself up for failure. This doubt in your capacity is called lack of self-confidence. You will need to boost your confidence level if you are going to regenerate your motivation and get back on track. To address lack of confidence, focus on what you already have rather than what you lack, create your own personal positive words that you can tell yourself to boost you up. Speak to yourself using encouraging words. It is true that motivation can come from outside; it may come from a preacher during a motivational seminar, or from reading motivation material. But real motivation is the one we give to ourself. External motivation gives us a quick burst of energy, but do not last.
    You need to motivate yourself using encouraging words. Repeat things that you already know to help remind yourself of what you’ve already achieved. Think positively even if you don’t yet believe what you are telling yourself – eventually, you may start to believe it. Learn to accept a compliment from others – and actually enjoy the feedback. Then the more self-confident we become, the more we are able to achieve. Understanding the relationship between motivation and self-confidence is important if you want to be able to improve either trait in yourself.
  3. Lack of focus
    This is the next reason why we lose motivation. This happens when you no more know exactly what you want, or you might find yourself scattered across so many different goals that you find it difficult to complete any of them. It’s so easy to lose focus on what we are trying to achieve in today’s busy world. There is so much going on that we can get anxious, distracted, and lose our ability to focus. To address lack of focus, you need to converge your efforts on what you are doing so that you can begin making achievements – even if they are small – which will encourage you to move on to the next goal and the next and so on. Reminding yourself of your life assignment can also help you to regain focus.
    Nothing motivates a person more than a sense of purpose. The purpose you have set for yourself is a huge source of motivation. Any person who refocuses on his discovered destiny will surely regain motivation.
  4. Lack of direction
    This happens when you don’t know exactly how to proceed to get what you want. You may know what you want and you believe that you can do it, but you just don’t know how to get there. When this happens it would either stop or demotivate us. To resolve lack of direction, sometimes just staying in action can be important – even if you aren’t exactly sure which actions to take. The good news is that if you can educate yourself on the necessary steps, you should be able to restore your motivation. Let’s say that you have developed your goals and have something to focus on, and you feel pretty confident that you can achieve the goal but still you find it difficult to find the direction that you need. To solve this block, you simply need to take your goal and break it down into the daily strategy that you will use to achieve it. You should literally have steps written down on ‘to-do’ lists so that you have specific tasks to focus on each day. When you sit down to work, pull out your to-do list and get started and you will find that you now have a clear direction to move forward in.
  5. Unwholesome associations
    This motivation killer becomes active when you have friends who distract you or keep on discouraging you by their words and actions. Some wrong friends intentionally destroy your self-Esteem and your self-Efficacy. Self-esteem is the capacity to respect and think well of yourself. It means that you appreciate yourself as a unique individual with your own set of skills, talents, and abilities. David Burns defines self-esteem as “the capacity to experience maximal self-love and joy whether or not you are successful at any point in your life.” Albert Bandura is considered an expert on the concept of self-efficacy. He stated that people perceive their own self-efficacy as “people’s judgments of their capabilities to organize and execute courses of action required to attain designated types of performances. Wrong friends will break your self-esteem and self-efficacy and if these two later ones are broken, your motivation will also be broken.
    To summarize ,avoid what demotivates you, and you will automatically stay motivated.
    Nathaniel Brandenon advises, “How do we keep our inner fire alive? Two things, at minimum, are needed: an ability to appreciate the positives in our life – and a commitment to action. Every day, it’s important to ask and answer these questions: ‘What’s good in my life?’ and ‘What needs to be done?”

HOW FAR ARE YOUR GOALS FREE FROM THE 8 FOLLOWING MISTAKES?

Goal-setting is very important especially at the beginning of the year. Indeed, Goals act like magic if properly set:
– Set goals motivate like magic.
-Goal setting takes your dreams and turns them into reality
-By setting goals, you plan how to materialize your wish.
-They keep you focused
-They give you enthusiasm
-They give you clarity in decision-making.
-They help you stay organized
-They help you judge your productivity and effectiveness
in fact, Goal-setting is so vital  that J.C Penny a famous rich man once said: “give me a stock clerk with a goal and I will give you a man, Give me a man without a goal and I will give you a stock clerk.”  But many people hastily set goals  and in the process commit many detrimental mistakes. But while we set goals for 2017, we should avoid those insidious mistake that never go without major consequences. Here them:

—–Don’t fail to list the goal category. Many people fail to list the category of the goal they are setting. There are several categories of goals; spiritual life physical life, intellectual life moral life, familial life, career, relationship etc… It will be helpful for you to list from which category you are setting a goal.
—-Don’t fail to put your goal in writing. While writing, make it specific. For instance, to say you want to be happily married is more of a wish than a goal. For a goal to be effective you must describe in detail what it will look like. Say I want to become a better husband by being more affectionate to my wife. Write your goals down, to have a way to measure your progress. Eric Garner teaches that, “Written goals have a way of transforming wishes into wants, can’ts into cans, dreams into plans and plans into reality”.
—-Don’t fail to give it a deadline. Deadlines often scare people away from goal-setting. But setting a deadline does provide a target. Deadlines don’t only force us to work had, they also serve as a motivator in the sense that each time you meet a deadline it reinforces your sense of fulfilling your goals, creates the momentum and sense of success in your life and gives you satisfaction. Set goals for every day, every week, every month, and every year.
—-Don’t fail to identify potential success blockers. You will meet obstacles therefore you should better expect them! Anything worthwhile in Life will have a price to pay and hurdles to conquer. Successful goal setters identify those potential problems first before they encounter them. This puts them in a much stronger position to overcome.
—–Don’t fail to write out a list of skills you will need to develop to achieve the goal. If you set a goal to be more affectionate then you might have to develop some listening and talking skills. It probably would help. If you want to write a book then you may need to develop grammatical skills. This step forces you to consider ahead of time the tools you will need to see your dreams come true. Make a list.
—-Don’t fail to identify the resources you will need. Chances are, you will require the assistance of certain people to see your dreams fulfilled. Who are they? How should you approach them? What should you ask them? Is there an association or fellowship to join? Some goals require the assistance of professional helpers.
—-Don’t fail to list what benefits this goal will bring. Every goal has a price and requires a certain degree of sacrifice and hard work but also contains some great gains. When you list the benefits of the goal, you stay motivated to stick with it.
Don’t fail to build in accountability factors. Have you tried to achieve a certain goal only to fail time and time again? You feel the goal is worthwhile and you would like to see it through, but you just can’t break through. To achieve such goals, make yourself accountable to someone you respect who can call you to order from time to time.

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Don’t Pull Up The Seeds When You’ve Just Sown Them: beware of Impatience

You may have heard the story of “The Man and the Butterfly”, this man who saw a butterfly struggling to emerge from its cocoon. To help it out, the man cut a bigger hole in the cocoon and pulled the butterfly through. However, the butterfly could not fly because of its too swollen body. The man did not understand that the butterfly’s struggle to emerge through the hole of the cocoon forces fluid from its body to its wings and thus makes them strong and ready to carry its weight.
We live in a fast generation. We want fast food, fast job, fast money, fast success, and fast love. This attitude is contrary to nature who herself is very patient and allow every process to fully follow her cause. Any attempt to hurry nature, will surely lead to disaster. Impatience is the reason why 95% of people who set themselves goals fail to reach them. Impatience is the source of many trouble and sufferings. Therefore, living in a patient state of mind will go a long way to prevent us some unnecessary trouble.

The most important and difficult stage to accomplish any worthy thing in life is the immediate stage after you set your goals. In the first stage, there’s a brief blip of euphoria. But this soon passes and then you hit the arid plateau of learning. It’s in this phase that most people lose their way and give up.

But this is the phase when you have to hang in there despite appearances. Otherwise, it’s like digging up the seeds a week after sowing them. So, here, for those who need a roadmap through the arid plains of goal-building, is a 6-step guide to managing your impatience and keeping your plans on track.

  1. Have Plenty of Motivation Reminders
    One of the cruel tricks that life plays on us is to make goal-setting easy and goal-building hard. This is no more true than in the opening phases of working towards a new goal. When we choose a new goal that seems within our reach, we are full of excitement and anticipation. It’s like the start of a marathon when everyone cheers us over the start line. But the cheers soon become a distant memory when we move into the second phase, the hard slog. It’s in this phase that we need to have a ready supply of motivation reminders to keep us going. It is in the early stages of working towards a new goal that you learn the most: “When you’re green, you grow. When you’re ripe, you rot.”
  2. Be a Fly, Not A Bee
    The chief problem with the early stages of goal-building is that you can never be sure of the right way forward, particularly if you are breaking new ground. You try something and it doesn’t work. You try again and it doesn’t work again. And again. And again. That’s tough. But it’s essential. Because you’re learning. Karl Weick says that in this situation it is much better to be a fly than a bee. When you place a fly and a bee in an upturned jam jar, the bee will head straight for the light and repeatedly buzz against the bottom of the glass. The fly on the other hand will dive frantically around the jar exploring every corner until he finds a way out. That’s the example to follow when you want to succeed: be a fly, not a bee.
  3. Accept the Struggle
    Those who are eager to succeed often treat the second phase of goal-building as an unnecessary waste of time. They would prefer to skip it and jump to the next phase of success. But this is to misunderstand the whole point of the second phase. It’s there to toughen you up. You may have heard the story of “The Man and the Butterfly” about the man who saw a butterfly struggling to emerge from its cocoon. To help it out, the man cut a bigger hole in the cocoon and pulled the butterfly through. However, instead of flying away, the butterfly was unable to fly. Its body was too swollen. What the man did not understand was that the butterfly’s struggle to emerge through the hole forces fluid from its body to its wings and thus makes them strong and ready to carry its weight. Like the butterfly, we need to struggle to succeed.
  4. Be Objective
    In stage two of goal-building, it’s valuable to stand back and distance ourselves from what’s going on. We need to be tripeds not bipeds. Bipeds are people who see only themselves and others. Risk-taking is a do-or-die undertaking. Progress is either a triumph or disaster. Life is black and white, winning or losing. Tripeds, on the other hand, can distance themselves from their situation by finding a third position where they can observe things with objectivity. Life isn’t either-or any more. It has depth, colour, and many angles.
  5. Don’t Judge Yourself
    Our win-lose culture puts great pressure on us to consider ourselves at any moment in life as either winners or losers. This means that failure is a bad thing and winning is everything. One of the most quoted expressions in our modern culture is: “Failure is not an option”. But this is to misunderstand the real nature of success. We need to fail in order to succeed. And we need to fail big-time in order to succeed big-time. Practically every successful entrepreneur, from Thomas Edison to Walt Disney, experienced failure many times over. But they didn’t judge themselves. They interpreted failure as “not succeeding yet” and saw it as just one more step on the road to success.
  6. Manage Your Morale
    Of course, it’s not always much fun to be stuck in the hard slog phase of goal-building. Nobody’s cheering any more. You have nothing to show for your efforts. And the dream still feels as far away as ever. That’s when you have to manage your morale. That means managing your stress, keeping things light, and working on the things you can’t see: your thinking patterns, your emotions, and your spirit. And, like the fluid in the butterfly, these may just be the things that will make you fly. I can say: “I am terribly frightened and fear is terrible and it makes me uncomfortable, so I won’t do it.” Or I could say: “Get used to being uncomfortable.” It is uncomfortable doing something risky. But so what? Do you want to stagnate and just be comfortable?” (Barbra Streisand)

We human beings are very similar to the plant world. We grow best when we work with Nature and time. Don’t be in too much of a hurry to achieve your goals. If you hold on with faith, certainty, and determination, you’ll get there in due course when the time is right.

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Eye-opening Tips for effective Risk-Taking

 

Men who attain great success may differ in many ways but they have one thing in common; they take great risks in life. So Risk-taking is as indispensable for great success as engine for vehicle.

Italian explorer and navigator Christopher Columbus who challenged the rages and waves of the sea to discover the American continent, once said: “You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.”

Indeed, those who fail to take important risks during their life will latter regret bitterly. To illustrate, in his book, millionaire mindset, Robert Gerry reports that Dr. Anthony Campolo, Professor of Sociology at Eastern College, St. Davids, Pennsylvania, shared the results of a survey where 50 people of 95 years and older were asked: “If you could live your life over what would you do differently?” According to Roberts, among many other things these old men regretted, they their lack of risk-taking was preeminent. So these old people said that they would take more chances in life. If they could re-live their lives, they wouldn’t be so scared to take risks.

Yet, despite the indispensable nature of risk-taking, risk must be taken with wisdom for it to yield the expected result.

HERE ARE MY 6 TIPS FOR EFFECTIVE RISK-TAKING
1- I make sure that my project is strong in my spirit
2- I make sure I truly respect the project. Proof of it will be the time and effort I am willing to put into it.
3- I make sure I am passionate about it. Proof of it will be the price I am ready to pay. Someone wanted to learn the saxophone, but he was not ready to sit down and take lessons on sit, then he understood that if he bought a saxophone he will never know how to play it.
4- The vision must dominate my imagination. Proof of it will be that I think about it all the time. The vision must be foremost in my heart. If God has given you a true vision and genuine purpose, it will pop up in conversation. It will be something bigger than you; too big to keep quiet about.
5- The project must be clear in my mind. Don’t risk in a project that is vague.
6- I must have pleasure and fun each time I think of the vision. Your feelings can be good indicators of your love for your project.

Anyhow, risk is indispensable and must be taken; and, the bigger the risk the bigger the result. We are often afraid to take risk because of the difficulties we may encounter. So we wait for the difficulties to vanish. Unfortunately it is always the opportunities and rarely the difficulties that vanish over time.

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FIVE AMAZING ADVANTAGES OF A GOOD FOUNDATION

Though invisible, foundation is the most important part of any structure. Any person, who lays his structure on a wrong foundation, sows seed for a fatal disgrace that will manifest sooner or later. How many times have we been horrified by the news of a structure that crumbled and claimed many lives because it was built on a wrong foundation? Yet we continue to jeopardize our lives and that of our children by laying our successes, lives, and marriages on erroneous pillars.
The word FOUNDATION appears most frequently in the literal sense in connection with the construction of buildings or cities but it also refers to the building of our lives, successes, marriages, children and so on.
To prove the determining nature of foundation, the Lord metaphorically used it in the gospel. He said: “I will show you what he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice. He is like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid the foundation on rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built. But the one who hears my words and does not put them into practice is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. The moment the torrent struck that house, it collapsed and its destruction was complete.” Luke 6:47-49.
So, even the Lord Jesus confirmed that beauty should not be our primary concern in building but foundation. We should always ask: Is what I am building stand the test of time? Continue reading “FIVE AMAZING ADVANTAGES OF A GOOD FOUNDATION”

The Bridge Between Pains and Peace

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PRAYER—- THE BRIDGE BETWEEN PAINS AND PEACE

And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Son may bring glory to the Father. You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.” John 14:13-14.

In his book Who Won the 94 World Cup? Alex Ribeiro, present Director of (Athletes for Christ), reports that when the Brazilian soccer team was going to play the 1994 soccer world cup in the United State of America, they had five matured Christian in the team. Namely: Jorginho, Dunga, Taffarel, Zinho, Paulo Sergio, and Branco. Bebeto had just started his Christian walk with God. Before, and during the tournament they were always gathering to pray that Brazil should break what had seemed like a curse and win the world cup for the fourth time. Their prayer was answered that day of the final when after praying to Jesus, Goal keeper Taffarel caused Roberto Baggio to miss the last penalty. No prayer goes unanswered, prayer surely changes things; even if it fails to change things for you, it will surely change you for things.
People in all walks of life, today, agree to the fact that prayer is indispensable if we want to finish the race of true success. Almost all great success authors discuss Prayer and as indispensable success principle. People who win over difficult times are people who never stopped believing. These winners, survivors, pray for God’s guidance and when they know what they have to do, they take action. Prayer is the most tremendous power in the world. When you pray affirmative prayers, they release the powers by which positive results are accomplished. Prayer helps for personal efficiency. Prayer helps to tap forces and to utilize strength not otherwise available. Prayer can refresh you up every evening and send you out renewed each morning.
Anyone who wants true success should greatly esteem prayer. Prayer is the foundation principle; it is the principle upon which all the others stand. Without prayer any other success principle will not have any foundation and support, and may consequently fall at any time.
THREE FAITH STATEMENTS ABOUT PRAYER

Things Will Be Different Because You Have Prayed
If you pray for anything, it may be for your son, wife, husband, job, business; things will be different than they would have been. This means that because you prayed for you son this morning, his day will be different than it would have been. Prayer has an effect, it is worthwhile. So pray, no prayer ever goes in vain. Each time you pray for anything, your prayers will surely have effect. Prayer always makes things different.

The Throne Of Grace Is Wide Open To Me
This is an important statement. The throne of grace is wide open to you, and anything on God’s heart is available to you if you pray. Prayer is centered on the throne of grace and what a privilege to enter in and access the throne. The hymn writer acclaims, “What a privilege to carry everything to God in prayer, “but regrets, “what a joy we often forfeit oh, what needless pain we bear all because we do not carry everything to God in prayers.” Why not pray when the throne of grace is wide opened, prayer is a great privilege.

Nothing Is Born Without Conception
Natural conception doesn’t just happen; there must be a physical union. Similarly an answer to prayer doesn’t just happen; there must be a union with God through prayer. Prayer is not a hit or miss proposition; today I hit tomorrow I miss. God operates on the basis of principles found in scripture. Your spirit is put in union with the spirit of God and conception can take place. It is only when conception takes place that our answer to prayer can be born.

SOME PRACTICAL GUIDES FOR YOUR PRAYER TIME

At times, our difficulty may lie in the way to go about with prayer. Here are some practical guides to help you as you engage in a prayerful life
Start With Singing (Ps100:1-2)
It is a good thing to always start your prayer time with singing. Singing prepares your heart and spirit to meet God, and also gives chance to the Holy Spirit to direct you. “Each time you start your prayer time by singing you will be surprised and amazed at how singing and making a joyful noise to the Lord changes your countenance and wakes you up!” Singing also sets the tune of your time with the Lord; when we start prayer by singing we are saying “I’m here, I’m happy and joyful about being here to have fellowship with you Lord.
Pause A Bit And Meditate On God (Ps100:3)
A few moment of meditation upon God’s power is crucial in prayer. We should always remember that “it is he who made us and we are his.” Meditate on God’s sovereignty and goodness. This meditation upon God removes our mindsfrom us and focuses it on the Lord. By it we are awedby his greatness and power, and humbled by the way he loves and cares for each of us. Having seen God as he really is, our focus will be in the right place when we pray and present our petitions to him. Pausing a bit to meditate on God also helps us to enter his presence in faith, which is the essential element in prayer. We must understand that the only ones who adequately prepare themselves for prayer are those who are so impressive with God’s majesty.
Continue With Thanksgiving
After singing and meditating, the next thing to do is to start thanking God. Thank God for what he has done for you, to your family, your business. In singing we are praising God for who he is, in meditating we are seeing God’s attributes. Now with thanksgiving we are thanking God for all the things he has done for us. Remembering past deeds God has done on our behalf reinforces our faith for the future. The Lord told the Israelites to remember his delivering power, (1sam 7:12). In thanksgiving, don’t ignore any blessing of God both great and small ones. The more you express gratitude for what you have, the more you will have to express gratitude for. Re-look at the world with new eyes and give thanks to God for all the good things present in your life.Appreciation is application for more.
Start To Pray Specifically
When by faith we are before the throne of grace, we have the liberty to ask God for specific requests. Don’t be vague tell God exactly what you expect of him. Most of the prayer request can be inspired in our hearts just as we meditate and thank God. Thus when we start to pray we already have some topics to pray for, plus those topics we prepared in advance. The Holy-Spirit is the author and instigator of a successful prayer life. He makes intercession for us on what to pray for. He directs our prayer to the areas of our lives that need empowering and cleansing, as well as strength to meet each day’s temptations.
Start The Topics By Those That Concern You
Bind all satanic influence against your life, your business, your job, your family. Bind his influence on you future and on your destiny. Then lose all delayed blessings in your business, job, family, children etc… Then cover your future with the blood of Jesus. Release your doors of favor and blessings. Jesus has promised to do all whatever we ask him. Be specific in your request.
The practical guides I have just highlighted are those that are generally used. You are free to develop your personal approach to prayer time. In the final analysis what really matters is contact with God. I fully agree with Norman Vincent Peale when he says, “bear in mind that the secret of prayer is to find the process that will most effectively open your mind humbly to God. Any method through which you can stimulate the power of God to flow into your mind is legitimate and usable.” Prayer is indispensable for destiny fulfillment. Don’t play with prayer, instead pray prayer because Satan is real and God is also real to answer us. In the Pursuit of destiny, there are always burning winds to pass over the soul of man and dry it up; prayer is the dew which refreshes it.
Prayer makes things possible for men which they find otherwise impossible. The child of many prayers shall never perish. The answer to prayer is not according to your faith while you are talking, but according to your faith while you are working. You cannot impress the mind of God by having a special Sabbath day set apart to tell Him what you want, and then forgetting Him during the rest of the week. You cannot impress Him by having special hours to go into your closet and pray, if you then dismiss the matter from your mind until the hour of prayer comes again. Oral prayer is well enough, and has its effect, especially upon yourself, in clarifying your vision and strengthening your faith; but it is not your oral petitions which get you what you want. In order to succeed with your destiny, you don’t need a “sweet hour of prayer”; you need to “pray without ceasing.”

HOW TO DEVELOP A PERSUASING PURPOSE AND SUCCEED WITH YOUR LIFE

Purpose is for life what the heart is for the body. The day the two fail you die. Life is so vague and elusive that living a purposeless life is like running aimlessly in the equatorial forest. So, purpose is the compass that orients us as we walk through the tight forest which is this life.
But there is an agonizing reality: despite the absolute necessary nature of purpose, many don’t have a purpose for their life. And it is a catastrophe.
According to my research, two main factors account for this rather crippling mistake. One is that people ignore the importance of purpose and the other is that many people don’t know how to develop a persuasive purpose for their life. In a former post, I lengthy discussed the importance of living a purposeful life. For today, these are:
NINE TECHNIQUES TO DEVELOP A PERSUADING LIFE PURPOSE:

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3 TIPS FOR MAKING GOOD DECISIONS

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Decision making is an integral part of our everyday life. Indeed, every day and every minute of our lives, we are called to take decisions. Studies show that the average person makes 612 decisions a day, in a week that means 4900 and in a year 254800. Decision making would be much easier if there were no consequences, but the reality is that every decision carries inevitable results. What we will be in the next hour and where we will be in the next hour depends much on the choices we make and the decisions we take this hour. What we are today and where we are today was determined by the decisions we made yesterday. What we will be tomorrow and where we will be tomorrow depends on the decisions we make today. Decision-making is therefore a crucial issue that has to be handled with care. Decisions have to be taken wisely and on time, if we want good results. Here are my three tips to help you take good decisions:
1- Decide on a way to glorify God
If you always take decisions in the perspective of obeying and pleasing God, you will increase your chances of always taking good decisions. When faced with complicated choices, always ask:” if it were Jesus in this case what would he do?”

2- Always take decisions in the direction of your God-given vision for life.
For instance, if an aspiring preacher has to choose between buying a good book and buying a good pair of shoes, he should go for the former one. When someone has a God-given vision, it should influence and direct his choices in life. If our choices in life are consistent with the vision God has given us, we will have less to regret

3- Decide to do things that will help you maintain a good relationship with others
But these relationships should be only those which don’t conflict with your destiny. Though we always try to protect our interest at the detriment of peace, from hindsight we often realized that such approach leads us to make a wrong choice. Thus, giving privilege to peace with others in our decision-making will increase our chances of making good decisions.

God bless you!
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13 tips for effective frienship

HOW FAR YOU ARE SURE YOU ARE NOT KEEPING THE WRONG FRIENDS?

The Bible says, “A mirror reflects a man’s face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses” (The Living Bible, Proverbs 27.19), and thus introduces us to the nineteenth absolute principle of destiny fulfillment:
Be careful in choosing your friends
One evening in Douala, a town in my country Cameroon, Police laid an ambush and caught a gang of alleged thieves. Among them was a young man who was not a thief but a friend of the thieves. The police had them well beaten and fractured the young man’s leg. As he was shutting in pain he told one of the policemen, “my broken leg should excite your pity, see I am not a thief see the way I am dressed, and more to that you met a weapon on each of my friends but on me you met no weapon.” The policeman answered’, that is your matter, it may be all as you say, I only know that I caught you together with these boys, and you must suffer in their company.” This story perfectly exemplifies the negative influence that wrong friends can have on our lives.
The type of friends we keep will go a long way to decide whether we fulfill our destiny or not. There is a lot of wisdom in the adage “Tell me who you hang out with and I will tell you who you are.” Have you given much thought to how that principle has been molding and shaping your life? We have seen great destinies being destroyed by bad friends. Be careful in choosing your friends. This is how I detect friends that are not appropriate for my destiny:

They Never Accept My Dreams
There are some people who will laugh each time you announce a new project for your life. When David (1 Sam 17:237-29) announced to his brothers that he wanted to fight Goliath, his brothers laughed and rebuked him saying he was unable, but David just broke away from them and continued following his vision. How do you know those who do not accept your idea? They mock and laugh when you announce your dream to them; they try to convince you that you are not capable and qualified to do it.
They Never Expect My Dreams to Come To Pass
The moment you have announced your plans, some people accept it and start expecting it. Others accept but don’t expect, it. They just accept to please you but do not believe it can really happen. The Roman soldiers mockingly told Jesus: “he said he could destroy the temple and rebuild it in three days.” They did not believe those words of Jesus, and were not expecting them to be fulfilled neither, that is why they could not be saved. The brothers of Joseph scornfully told him, “let us kill him and see what will become of his dreams.” They did not believe in Joseph’s dream.
They Do Not Respect My Dreams
There are some people who underestimate your aspirations; they see it as mere ambition. Someone who respects your dreams will start by respecting you. But if after you have announce your plans to someone and he continues to belittle you, then be careful with such a person he is not a source of encouragement. Mark Twain confirms, “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.”
They Do Not Protect My Dreams
How do you know them? They never speak any thing well about your plans. Each time they have the opportunity to say things that can discourage you, scorn and criticize your objectives they do it.
INDICATORS OF POTENTIAL GOOD FRIENDS

These are the characteristics of good friends:

Anyone Who Can Challenge You to Obey God
If you come across someone who challenges you to obey God, don’t neglect such a one. He is somebody that will help you become what God wants you to be and fulfill your destiny. Those who discourage you from obeying God, even if they are brothers, stay away from them.

Anyone Who Defends You in Your Absence
A real friend do not only defends you in your presence; a real friend does it even in your absence. There are some people who will pretend to love you when they are in front of you but speak ill of you when you turn your back. Be careful of such. Jonathan (1 Sam 19:1-5) was a real friend to David. He defended David in his absence. If you hear that someone you respect spoke ill of you in your absence, be careful of such, likewise if someone you least expect speaks well of you in your absence, go to him and make him your friend. He deserves it.

Anyone Who Is Following a Dream
If you meet someone who has a purpose in life and is following it, make him your friend. Why? Because his attitude will automatically contaminate you, you need such a person to follow up with your goals. “Iron sharpens iron”. Such a person will light you up without even feeling it.

Anyone Willing To Contribute Something to Your Life
If you come across someone who openly indicates that he wants to contribute something to your life may be an advice, an idea, or money to help you fulfill your destiny, make that one your friend. Welcome such in your life and respect the relationship and you will never regret it.
Anyone Who Prizes Integrity
There are some people with very low moral standards. They have very poor values. But there are others who highly esteem integrity. This last group of people can be of great help. Close association with one who refuses to compromise with circumstances he does not like is an asset that can never be measured in terms of money.

Those Who Can Appreciate You
I here agree with William James who said, “The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.” This does not mean you should spend your day going around looking for those who can appreciate you. It simply means that those who appreciate you are potential good friends.
Those Who Can Forgive You
Almost all emotional problems and stress come from unresolved conflicts, failure to have developed right relationships with people. Because of these many people have a deep desire for total forgiveness. A forgiving spirit is one basic necessary ingredient for a solid relationship. Anyone who can truly forgive you is a potential good friend.

Those Who Can Listen To You
Anyone who gives his ears to listen when you are talking indicates that he respects and considers you; he can be a good friend. People want those who can listen when they have something to say.
Those Who Understand You
If you discover that someone is trying to understand your personality and the way you function, he is a potential good friend. Do you know that many people never bother to know how you function; all they want is that you do it their own way. Any person, who understands you or is trying to do so, can be a good friend.
Carefully choose your friends, reject bad ones but keep some friends keep good friends they will help you along the way of your destiny fulfillment.

God bless

comforting realities about temptation

If you are Christian like me, then this is good news for you,

Temptation is not sin

I have found that many Christian adults struggle with the distinction between temptation and sin. Bombarded by tempting thoughts, they conclude that there must be something pretty sick about them. They equate temptation with sin. But even Jesus was “tempted in all things as we are.” But finish the verse: “Yet without sin” (Hebrews 4:15). As long as we are in the world we are exposed to temptation just like Jesus was. But He didn’t sin, and we don’t have to sin either (1 Corinthians 10:13). In this post I want to define and describe temptation so you can easily recognize it and quickly refuse Satan’s invitation to do things your own way. THE BASIS OF TEMPTATION Since Adam, every person is born into this world physically alive and spiritually dead (Ephesians Continue reading “comforting realities about temptation”